If you spend all your money on things to impress people or because "you deserve them", then you end up with an empty pot.
If you spend all your money on things to impress people or because "you deserve them", then you end up with an empty pot.
Healthcare is expensive. If you are on Obamacare, it is subsidized.
Housing is expensive if you want to live in a "good" neighborhood. There are a lot of "okay" neighborhoods that people can afford just fine.
College is expensive, but it really depends on which university you go to. As much as anything, the college issue is intentional misdirection by the people who are steering parents and kids into those choices. There are very economical options, but the price tags and ramifications of those choices are usually not spelled out very well to the people making those decisions.
Edit: Childcare is absolutely expensive, to the point that I really expect having a parent stay at home to swing back around to being more normal. We have three kids and if my wife worked, it would cost more to have them in daycare than she would make while they were there.
My wife's career never started. Her degree was worthless so she was working as a barista before we had kids. She does some work on the side, but she was never going to generate the kind of income I do solely based on our respective career choices.
If I lose my job, we can live off savings for several years. If I am unable to find work, the economy has bigger problems that are independent of my wife working or not. If I die or become disabled, that's what insurance is for.
No one enjoys divorce. In some cases it is a necessary evil, but I don't think anyone would ever characterize it as pleasant.
I absolutely agree there are things that could be changed to make life better for many people.
However, you live in the present, under the rules as they are. And from there you gain leverage to change the future.
Living as if the rules were different when they aren't just sets you up for failure.
It's the whole idea of "be so good they can't ignore you".
Now you're getting it.
Also, the "wealth tax" exists, it's called the capital gains tax, and it only goes up to 20%. It should be 100%.
Obviously I don't expect an answer to that - just something to consider.
Asset appreciation is exponential. Income is linear. The only way to get ahead financially is to use leftover income to build a portfolio of appreciating assets.