Well it doesn't help that Linux desktop is backed by one of the most condescending cultures that ever stalked the internet.
Have you considered that maybe, just maybe, the way Linux works just doesn't jive with a lot of people? Like, everything has a middleman involved. Drivers for your hardware? Have to be merged into the kernel. Applications? Should go through (all of) the distro package repo(s) unless you want it to be a pain in the ass.
We get it, you find value in the way these things work, some of us don't.