- If you go around memorising addresses then you are doing IT wrong in general. So many things depend on DNS (not just A records) that punching in IPs by default is a bad habit. Browsers will keep on enforcing SSL/TLS more and more until the point where typing in an IP address into the URL bar will be as painful as using the web GUI for say an elderly HP switch is right now.
- In general latency is not affected by header lengths these days. In some cases, networks are prioritising IPv6 for the opposite affect. In other cases ISPs have dropped their entire IPv6 support without noticing for quite some time. sigh
- The addressing scheme in use should have nothing to do with your privacy. Yes NAT does accidentally hide you a little bit. However I can fingerprint your browser instead, for example. I'll trade easy SIP n RTP over NAT any day.
Now, for my gripes:
- Try doing multi WAN effectively over IPv6 without PI and a routing algorithm, or NAT - Try changing ISP (new addressing everywhere)
The second gripe I currently work around with RFC 4193 - Unique Local IPv6 Unicast Addresses, the first one I whine about and will probably use NPT (wholesale NAT for IPv6)