You could argue this for other languages - But, I am an experienced programmer who has written production applications in quite a handful of major languages and frameworks out there. I've tried almost everything that trended on HN in the past years - Scala, NodeJS, Ruby, Python, GoLang, R, PHP, Java, and a handful more and I can tell you this - there's nothing quite like Elixir for me till date.
These days, even for my consulting work, I use Elixir. It's almost as if I just push code and forget. (Except for watching out for security vulnerabilities, other regular audits). Everything isn't as green since it's a fairly new language, there's still libraries lacking for some basic stuff - such as authentication (only a handful of them are maintained). But still, I wouldn't consider downgrading to anything else.
Elixir has drastically improved my productivity, and you get to find errors in compile time, leading to much, much better quality, reliable code. I love how fast I can develop apps, SPAs and what not with Elixir/Phoenix. Coming from a NodeJS experience, Elixir is a 100-fold upgrade from JS. In fact, you will realize how terrible JS is (as a language) once you start programming in Elixir.
The closest to Elixir that I like is Scala. They are almost like cousins. Elixir runs on Erlang's VM, Scala runs on JVM. In fact, I prefer Scala.js for my frontend these days, which converts Scala code to JS with strong typing support.
But, Scala is more verbose and way too advanced for someone new to the language. There's a 101 ways to do the same thing and it's very academic as well (The Scala book was over 700 pages when I bought it).
If you are looking for a new language/framework to learn in 2019 - pick Elixir + Phoenix. If not, then go with Ruby + Rails, you couldn't be wrong with either choice.