> Somewhat incidentally, but I believe this is a large part of why, to me, software development is not an engineering discipline. At the end of the day, engineers (I think; not actually being one myself) have to answer to physics.
As a software engineer who calls what I do "engineering", I have to answer to physics every day. The difference is that the relative cost of everything is skewed so far out of proportion to what other engineers work with that it's hard to account for the differences, and software engineers work with so many orders of magnitude. We are still working with physical stuff, basically refined sand and metal, which consumes electricity and other resources, just like other engineers.
Imagine that you were a civil engineer tasked with building a bridge. Except instead of using concrete and steel, I handed you some adamantium at the low, low cost of $0.01 per cubic meter, and a bunch of robots to machine it for you. Designing bridges is easy now, and you can basically make it look like whatever you want, just because adamantium is so amazing.
But just because we've made bridge-building trivially easy doesn't mean that civil engineering is obsolete. Adamantium is nice, and all, but now I'm asking you to build a Dyson shell, and you have to tell me that it's not physically possible, even with adamantium.
I would love to just handwave the design of the systems I work on, I would love to just arrange pieces however I felt like. Instead I have all these constraints like the reliability of components (hard drives fail), physical laws (speed of light constrains network latency), the memory hierarchy (the software manifestation of constraints on circuits), and all sorts of other problems that I can't just pretend don't exist. I have to choose algorithms that will complete with the computational resources that I have available. Maybe an exact algorithm is not physically realizable, maybe I have to choose some kind of approximation.
This is not true in mathematics. In mathematics, algorithms are not necessary (at least, for most mathematicians). In mathematics, I can prove that some object exists without concerning myself with whether some physical system is capable of constructing that object.
At the end of the day, I am writing software, and that software is one part of a real, physical system which obeys physical laws. This makes me an engineer. Maybe I play around with 20 orders of magnitude in my designs and the civil engineer plays around in 8, but so what?