OK. I live in Petaluma, CA.
After rereading my comment I would like to clarify that it was not intended as an insult but rather an observation that time for friends was not on your list. Several recent studies have linked maintaining friendships with long-term health and happiness.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in...
http://time.com/collection/guide-to-happiness/4809325/friend...
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/285502780_Friendshi...