Unfortunately, it was hell trying to convince my psychiatrist that I needed to be weaned off the other medications he had put me on. I had to do the research myself on how to safely do it, then weened myself down to just Lexapro and Adderall on my own. He was absolutely shocked when I eventually told him that I'd been on just one antidepressant for four months straight.
If I ever have another severe depressive episode (highly likely), I'm going straight to ECT. I've done two rounds of ECT over that last 3 1/2 years, and it's been two years since my last round. The medication and lifestyle changes I made (again, against doctor recommendation) seems to be working well to keep my mood relatively stable, though I still have relatively minor periods of depression each year that last a few weeks each. The medication cocktails with all of their side effects and withdrawal symptoms just aren't worth it, especially when I get depressed enough that my life is literally on the line.
Yes, I wasn't taking it for depression, but for chronic neuropathic pain (it didn't work).
If you suspect the competence of your primary caretaker to administer an effective therapeutic regimen, (a valid worry) I would find a second opionion from another doctor. But not from an internet forum...
Hence, it's important you can trust the caretaker.
My advice was given in this context - it's not as important to find a withdrawals symptom expert than it is to find an expert that you can trust.
This is not to belittle withdrawal symptoms, but just to observe that in many cases they are not the most important concern of the parties in the healing process.