If it takes you 30 minutes to answer, of course I'll do something else. Which is good, because I don't want you to rush the answer and you don't want me to waste 30 minutes while you think of a good answer.

You probably talk a lot, I write a lot. So we are good at different things.

Talking / writing has nothing to do with anonymity, you can talk for two hours and I would still don't know who you are.