So there is an extent to which I'm sympathetic to what you've written here. I do think that feminists (and I consider myself to be a feminist) are often dogmatic and not open to discussion or criticism. There is reason for this, namely that they are trying to protect groups (such as women and racial minorities) whose voices have traditionally been ignored, and thus there is a tendency to err on the side of favouring the opinions of these groups over other groups. I think there are positives and negatives to this, but it can be dogmatic.

However, I think you need to consider what you're saying:

> It does not look good for a woman to give orders. She should try not to get into such positions if she wants to retain female qualities.

Are you saying that women should not be in positions of power?

That quote also talks about "female qualities". And I think you should consider that many women are not very feminine, and many men are not very masculine. And to my mind there is no reason why those people should be constrained to act in a certain way just because of their gender. If you think that they should, then I'd be interested to hear why...