> Is your ISP and service really that bad?
What I can get commercially? yes. the best available to me is 14/1 ADSL. And I'm in a dense upscale urban area.
As far as I understand it, this is relatively common situation worldwide.
> If it is I think you have bigger problems you should address before working on personal projects.
What I have done is set up my own wireless link using Ubiquiti dishes to a nearby location with a 100mbps net connection. But this is hugely unusual: both to have building access to add a dish to my apartment building roof, and to have a Line-of-sight location to connect to, that also lets me set up a dish on their roof, and connect it to their network.
> I can always access my sites when I'm not home.
I used to try and do that (subject to internet quality), but then I realised I was spending $50 a month on power bills for leaving my desktop powered on 24/7. The cost of a $5 dollar VPS is far less.