You’re assuming a lot.
I’m assuming your OP thinks “better safe than sorry” is stupid because it doesn’t actually help you make decisions.
I would much rather drive on a bridge of someone whose motto is “do it right.”
This isn’t the Apollo program. We know how to make safe bridges. It’s not a matter of being cautious and talking to every stakeholder. It’s a matter of hiring actual
engineers,* letting them work, believing them, and then giving them the resources to monitor construction properly.
It means sometimes rejecting a lot of bad material and holding the project up for 8 months.
It does not mean “lean safe” and cross your fingers.
* meaning licensed engineers. The word engineer has I guess been made meaningless by thousands of people writing code and calling it “engineering”. It used to mean someone had completed training as an engineer.