> Given how many people post under pseudonyms how do you know you're the only woman who spent time there?
DoreenMichele had never claimed to be the only female to spend time here, she claims to be the only (open) woman to have spent time on the HN leaderboard (under a previous handle), which seems a pretty solid claim.
> That's a huge presumption isn't it?
Well, in the absence of history of the leaderboard and obsessive monitoring of everyone's posts who had ever been on it it might be a bit of a presumption, but it's not a huge one; the nature of the leaderboard is that people on it are naturally fairly visible in their posting.
Now, it could be that the other prominent participants who are women are just extra careful to avoid indicating their gender, but while that's different than them not being here, it didn't actually make her point about HN any less valid if true.
> Nothing keeps women away from Hacker News. They aren't discouraged or told HN is a "site for men".
Not in so many words, sure, but if you haven't seen that subtextually, you are missing a lot.
> If you really think society has a problem with sexism amongst men you are clearly seeing what you want to see.
If you think it doesn't, you are seeing, well, very little of society, or through badly distorting lenses.