A lot of men in tech don’t spend a lot of time looking after their kids. They then criticise their wives parenting methods. I’m not saying this is what you’re doing, but it’s made me a cynic about most of what I read on HN.
I devote a large amount of time to my daughter. The other parents who are in tech are quite similar.
Perhaps I live in a bubble here in Norway.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/jul/05/childca...
Though I’d be interested in more stats on this.
I’ve known enough HN’ers and tech fathers in real life who talk a lot but don’t look after their kids to have become cynical myself.