1: https://hackaday.com/2017/09/24/game-boy-advance-hiding-in-a...
I would think a better analogy is the Raspberry Pi being put into all kinds of products. Nobody is respinning or modifying the RPis - they're being used as a COTS CPU for a larger project.
Bluetooth is also lacking rather as a protocol for controlling embedded hardware. Generally, the hardware can't get internet connectivity through the phone unless it's 'app' is open. Bluetooth is also limited to only a few kilobytes per second, which for many use cases is insufficient (eg. streaming video). Some embedded hardware tries to set up a wifi hotspot for the phone to connect to to get round the bandwidth limits, but most phones can't connect to more than one wifi hotspot at once which is a huge disadvantage.
Overall, I'm disappointed with Google/Apple and standards bodies for not making a standardized solution to 'embedded device wants to use a phone as a UI'.