Do people still think about "starter" homes?
The first house I bought was tiny. Two small bedrooms, a bathroom with a sink, tub, and toilet, a living room and a kitchen. Carport in back on a small lot.
I knew it wasn't what I wanted forever, but it was adequate at the time (no kids when we bought it, one when we sold it) and the payment was lower than rent on a similar sized apartment.
Gave me a tax deduction, and though it didn't appreciate a lot I didn't lose money on it either. When I sold it, I parlayed the original down payment, the small increase in equity, plus additional savings into buying a bigger house.
If you start off with a big house at the very upper end of what you can afford, you have a hard time saving more money and can be really hurt by unexpected maintenance and repairs.