It’s useful but not necessary. It’s hard to offer the simplicity described above while keeping the control in your hands, but some folks working on wireless mesh are working on it:
https://blog.eero.com/mesh-trust-public-key-infrastructure-e...
https://blog.eero.com/mesh-trust-public-key-infrastructure-e...
Manual steps with the physical hardware, or even requiring a local wifi/ethernet connection, are always going to be more secure than an internet-accessible god mode.