On one hand you complain about using technologies before you have done a prototype and evaluated the product. Then you blindly tell startups to just use MySQL/PostgreSQL without having any idea of their use case or whether it matches their query patterns.
If you are a startup the right way to go is to document your use case, understand what queries those use cases demand and then find the right database that satisfies it e.g. don't pick MongoDB if you are doing lots of joins and don't pick PostgreSQL if you are doing wide-table feature engineering type analytics.
Right tool for the right job.