The only difference in whether data is creepy or not lies in the answer to a single question: Did you willingly provide it? In other words, did you choose to give it to them?

I tell the concierge service what type of table I like at a restaurant, to put into their file on me, so I expect anyone there to know that.

I do not tell a Bumble date where I work, so I do not expect them to know that (even though they could Linkedin stalk me).

A lowball offer on a house I am selling could be viewed as insulting. But, if before the offer I let it slip that an ugly gas station was about to go up next door, then all of a sudden the lowball offer is not insulting anymore.