I'll never go without owning a car again. The ability to travel freely and not feel some psychological burden about doing it is more than worth the cost of a car to me.
NOTE: This is based on my experience living in Austin, Seattle, Memphis, and White Plains NY.
This! It's so hard to get over that psychological resistance to seeing a ~$10-15 hit every time you want to go somewhere not too far from your house. Even if I know, rationally, that it is the same or less than I would spend for owning a car, I can't get over.
There's a joy and freedom in owning a car and having to think about the real cost of every mile you drive. Ignorance is bliss I guess?
Source: Me in San Francisco.
explanation, I can drive a car, for fun, to go on adventures, outside of the city, or take a ride at night, but when I'm making a reasonable salary, I'd rather uberx when I commute, and totally focus on work and my mindset, than road safety. Also sometimes I'm very stressed/tired after/before work, so driving is not that safe and safety is priceless.
Also, SF seems somewhat unique in how bad street parking gets. In, e.g. Toronto, street parking in some areas near downtown is reserved for residents and outer neighbourhoods tend to be spacious enough that households have dedicated parking spaces.
Yes, there are such places. If you are willing to fork out an additional $300 (minimum) for the parking spot.
What area were you getting $150 for?
Ok yeah, in those areas, I can see it happening (but then again, I would never rent in those areas if I have a car...)
I was looking for 2beds mostly around sunset and richmond (basically around areas with good elementary schools). I'm surprised you got such a different experience because when I was searching, many places had parking included, and "important" factors like parking/laundry didn't even seem to affect the price as much as other random reasons (e.g. recent renovations, landlord whims, the real estate agent mediating, perceived "transit convenience", etc)
I spent a significant amount of time looking (I toured well over 50 places), and there's definitely a bunch of full-of-$%&@ people out there trying to rip you off. It's hard to find good deals, but not impossible, and I did get a few who even offered to waive deposit/first month/parking or to negotiate.
> But so much of your mental time and energy will be wasted owning the car.
I don't follow. I haven't spent much "mental time and energy" on my car since I decided the on which model to purchase and finished all the paperwork. Getting it serviced is convenient, infrequent, and requires little time on my part. Driving requires attention, but I don't experience a notable gain in productive free time when I use Uber/Lyft.
I do live in a car-friendly area with good parking and nearby gas stations, so YMMV.
If you live or work in a bustling downtown, then car ownership is tougher (but that's one of the reasons I don't work in a city like SF).