It’s already bad enough excluding oneself from messenger.
Coincidentally, my social circle is approximately 0. It has never previously occured to me that this may not actually be a coincidence.
Is it no longer possible to reach people via text or phone?
I have a clean, libre LineageOS setup on my phone, except for whatsapp.
My family has entirely moved over to Telegram, though I think they also still use WhatsApp. It doesn't bother me - change starts with yourself.