I can at least understand game console developers doing this. But it has become standard practice now.
I forgot my new pin on my iPad, and Apple forced me to take an update that I didn't want in order to restore it, which broke several features that I liked[1]. After iOS8, there is no way to decline updates, they will just keep getting downloaded.
My mother and grandmother both had their iPads hobbled by destructive updates as well. My Mom was going to give her old iPad 4 to one of her students so they could use this learning app, but Apple updated her iPad while she was sleeping one night, and iOS10 is so slow it is barely usable.
Can we please stop excusing this behavior by using neutral language? Companies clearly know that these updates are unwanted, or else they would let your roll them back. Retroactively removing features and damaging devices that people have paid for should be illegal.