I follow a pretty aggressive saving pattern for early retirement, but after that I really enjoy spending money on hobbies and travel. (Shout out the reddit community of FIRE) Travel helps me avoid burnout on the job, and expand my worldview. Hobby wise I really enjoy building mechanical keyboards. Its a really close knit hobbyist community. Be careful though the really high end stuff can cost quite a bit of money. But yeah overall, you need to save and be responsible, but at the same time you can't take it with you. Life is meant to be enjoyed, and money opens up some really unique and special experiences for you.