Here is the lesson:
1. We need something simpler, so I will make a simple solution to this problem 2. Simple should also mean no strict spec, support for versioning or any of those engineer things. All that engineer shit is boring and I can tell myself this laziness is "staying simple" 3. OH SHIT, I was totally right about #1 so this got popular and having been designed as just a toy is causing a lot of problems for a massive number of people ... now my incompetence regarding #2 is on display and there is nothing I can do about it
I'm not saying "Thou shalt always add bureaucracy to your toy projects", but look at what happened and think about how Gruber and Crawford will be remembered, partly if not mostly, for being "the asshole who screwed up X". If you go the other way programmers will think "damn I hate these RFCs, these suits are messing up the beautiful vision of Saint [your name here]".