Facebook doesn't sell data, it sells ads.
Facebook doesn't sell data, it sells ads.
That sounds like selling data but with extra steps.
In the end you have a click associated with an advertising campaign linked to a real life (or even pseudo) identity.
It doesn't really matter if ads are served to everyone or if they are shown only to a targeted demographic - either way, only people who are interested will click on them. Also, I think it is safe to say that, roughly, it is only the efficiency of clicks per ad-view that will increase if one uses targeted advertising.
So, if the act of clicking a targeted advertisement does not in itself somehow "transfer" any more identifying data than a click on a regular ad would, which I don't think it does, then what's the problem?
Same knowledge as your first example (names, expecting). I do admit you only get the information from people who come into the store.
Given Target was able to figure out someone was expecting based on behavior in their store, back in 2011 [1], even though they dont have a loyalty program, imagine what can be done with so many trackers that are on the web datamining your behavior from one website to another.
[1] https://mobile.nytimes.com/2012/02/19/magazine/shopping-habi...
Google can know that you're expecting, because of a congratulation email. Facebook can know you're expecting, because of a life event. Arbitrary companies can't know who their baby store ad is being shown to.
You can argue that Google and Facebook are too big, and data being shared between YouTube, Gmail, Google Adwords, etc. is suboptimal. But that's still better than a company that will freely sell a database of information to be resold, mixed, etc. forevermore.
Is fingerprinting so good that cookies are now irrelevant? I mean most mobile devices have the same screen sizes etc.
I'm sorry but if you care about privacy, you shouldn't be using Gmail.
That doesn't mean they are going to give you their name.
And if they choose to give you their name, it's their right and responsibility.