Avoid drastic moves. The older I get the more I realize most “drastic move” stories are bs PR pieces. Think how you can move in the direction you want to go in steps. Move to a cheaper location: see if you can move to a satellite office or work remote. No, then look at other jobs you could interview at in the area you want to move to. Translate your FANG experience into a career jump. Then you will have experience and connections in the area, so if your business flounders you have options to fall back on and aren’t starting cold. Starting your business: find a job with better work life balance and lay the foundation for the jump in your spare time. Focus on the some money path vs. the a lot of money path. See if there are people in the area you move to who can help. Take steps and avoid jumps. But it sounds like you should start moving in this direction now so you don’t get so fed up at work that you make the move in a reactionary fashion. Good luck and godspeed!