Yes.
> What’s to say that the hot desert sun and strange weather patterns, radiation or whatever couldn’t skew the dating
Lots. For a start - only one of those would possibly affect the outcome of testing and would also be detectable.
> It seems further unlikely that such a bone from, 85k y/ago as they say, would be so close to the surface
Your incredulity doesn't affect the outcome one way or another and unless you want to dispute the fact that artifacts that are much older are often found on or close to the surface it's not based in any way to the real world.
> In mechanical engineering we don’t ever “trust” the calculations until they are thoroughly validated
And neither does the science around these dating techniques. In fact they're usually better supported than any engineering is.
> It seems backwards to hinge all our science on it when (AFAICT) it hasn’t even been validated itself!
And here's the thing: You're incredibly misinformed and that's why it makes no sense to you.