If I can piggyback on the OP's question, I have my own scenario: I'm still considered a "recent grad" by my current company despite my previous post-college job (not in a software field) and while I can ask workplace/codebase questions and have seniors who keep an eye on me, there's no mentorship available since I think this is the first time the team I'm on has taken on a junior. I've looked on Meetup for events and such, but anything local to me is dominated by web development (there's one woman who owns somewhere around 3 or 4 meetup groups in my area that are supposed to be about different subjects but after researching them, the groups all come back to her site/company Daniweb and the subject matter is all about introducing people to HTML/CSS and surface-level discussion about trending things like VR and cryptocurrency); otherwise, I'd have to commute into the city to attend a meetup during a weekday, which isn't viable considering my commute from work just to get home.
Are there any options for me?