For those who are disabled, the prevalence of these devices can be life changing.
But if you think there will be people willing to self host and maintain a whole voice assistant service, you're off your rocker.
It's just like saying "Why doesn't everyone just use Tor and PGP?" Because it's an enormous pain in the ass and really only accessible to technical users.
There were probably people who said that about open source operating systems, once upon a time.
Extremely complicated software is packaged down to an installer and installed by non-expert users all the time.
But moreover, if you need to call me “off my rocker,” you’re not engaging in good faith.