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In order to get married you first need to meet someone worth marrying. It's quite possible he's never met that person.

Sounds like a case of the Marriage problem:

my 2cents: to use this strategy, don't forget to have an iron-clad pre-nup, first.

I love it!

I sure didn't mean to sound hard, but sometimes the way through a problem is the way around the problem. Kind of like this illustrates.