That sounds illegal somehow.
It might be illegal, but the onus is on me.
dan(a)lpf.io
There's confounding variables in there too like the OP said with the idea that he was an example for the other employees to jot actually take their benefits
At a big company, likely other people tried to claim paternity leave as well, and non-paternity leave people were laid off, and (with legal discovery) you can do the math on ratios of layoffs across the cohrots.