Market share for Metal is an order of magnitude less than for DirectX. That's a hurdle.
iPhone sales in 2017 were 223 million (https://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/talkingtech/2017/12/29/i...)
The total market share is a much more complicated picture, obviously, but I don't think the difference is nearly as big as you do.
In any case, that still puts Metal and DirectX in the same order of magnitude.
But AAA on a Windows desktop commands $40-60, whereas AAA on mobile commands < $8 +/- scuzzy IAP schemes.
This list[1] is quite a bit different looking from this list[2]