Electron is not a sensible trade off. It is not necessary to accept that level of inefficiency to get that productivity boost. It only has happened that way because our industry has been so web focused for so many years, that very little brain power has gone into cross platform desktop apps for a long time.
And we end up with a ridiculous Frankenstein solution that is fractally wrong. But it is "Easy" because 90% of programmers are used to HTML,CSS,Javascript and so they can suddenly make 'desktop' apps now.
And no, we don't have a choice when almost every desktop application being made now is being made in electron. Its just awful, and you should quit dismissing the people telling you how much they hate the situation, its real.
And of course those of us that hate it should be aiming to help fix the situation, but of course it is difficult, since anything you propose that is not HTML/CSS/Javascript seems alien to so many modern programmers that they reject it out of hand.