Income is a more important factor in rating men's attractiveness compared to women.

Here is just one study I quickly dug up, there are others confirming this: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016726811...

Another one: https://etd.ohiolink.edu/pg_10?0::NO:10:P10_ETD_SUBID:113754

I don't understand whats patriarchal about my comment, care to elaborate? If you have a more solid data point than "thats not my personal experience", I'd be certainly interested in it.