> That is a fault of the programmer, not C.
It's common to hear this line from the C fandom, and very rare to hear a serious proposal for what to do with all this Bad Code written by Bad Programmers. The status quo is to rewrite the former from scratch, and totally ignore the latter in the hopes that they'll be magically pulled down to hell and have their hands burned off by daemons. As far as I know, that part doesn't actually happen. Instead, they just keep writing more Bad Code, and meanwhile the rewrites are just as liable to cause problems as whatever they replaced, because often as not, the people doing the rewrites also turn out to be Bad Programmers.
If pressed for actionable solutions, C advocates will sometimes mention tooling such as Valgrind and ASAN, as if merely having it exist guarantees that all C programmers are educated in its use and make it a part of their workflow. This clearly isn't the case. New programmers are still learning C from material written before such tooling existed. Old programmers are still recommending it. There's no path for Bad Programmers to become Good Programmers, except to be admonished in public to Stop Writing Bad Code.
Ultimately, I agree with you: The issue here isn't with the C language. It's with the people who use it. Their priorities do not include concerns like memory safety, and their normal response to questions of code quality is to make it somebody else's problem.
If the culture of the community were to change, I expect the language would follow.