Whatever happened to the good ol' days of best practices? At least with Microsoft products, say, something like SCCM, you have metrics that can tell you what works & what doesn't work. Or, a software product on Microsoft's platform like PDQ Inventory/PDQ Deploy. I know with a decent 4GB memory/60GB HDD/1Gbps network, I can manage 40-50 desktop PCs fairly easily.
Do people not do baselines anymore? There's so much random documentation for Ceph. It's poorly documented. There are no logical help switches for it. And there's no "Oh, you should have x mons for this many OSDs"
It's just poor. Poor all around. :-(