Fortunately in the age of the Internet and advanced search engines, you actually can be your own diagnostician.
You have to learn to decide when you must have medical attention, and you must not accept dismissiveness from doctors. Yes, you must also not be a hypochondriac -- that will cost you money and crowd out others who need the care. But this is why you must... become good at being your own diagnostician.
This is very much not what doctors want. It's not what the FDA wants. It's not what anyone should want. But the quality of care is so variable, and so dependent on someone noticing in less than the only five minutes they want to spare you, some detail that you have days to notice... that you just have to be your own diagnostician.
Arm yourself with knowledge before you get to the doctor's office or ER.