I've had this happen while commuting in London, and it is definitely annoying. But it is not "terrible" and certainly not "insane" or a "nightmare scenario". Surely it is better than the vicious cycle of overcrowding forcing longer dwell times forcing more overcrowding? And that's not even taking into account the obvious danger of overcrowded platforms, with people at the back wanting to get to the front, and people at the front teetering over electrified rails as a train approaches.