This fee shouldn’t be compared with net neutrality. It’s a completely different and less scary thing.
That may not be the most important aspect of the Net Neutrality fight for you, personally. But it is an aspect of it. And it is valid for others to be concerned about it.
And for those people to whom Net Neutrality is principally about nickel-and-dime rent-seeking, comparisons to BMW's nickel-and-dime rent-seeking are appropriate.