Once these are working well will factory workers be able to attach a third and fourth arm for extra productivity?
People who use a tool for a long time report the tool feeling like an extension of their body.
Also, try this thought experiment - try to flap your wings. I know you don't have any, just try to activate them anyway. Do you sense yourself trying to move "something"? Your brain clearly is able to map anything it wants.
In order for this approach to work, a nervous signal has to travel out of the brain, and at least into the brain stem. In these cases, they actually have to get all the way to a giant amplifier (your muscle) in order to detect it.
When your talking about your brain imagining to flap your wings, unless your brain has mapped your swings to your lats, traps and delts, you're not sending any actual motor signals out of your brain and we can't read it. If it is mapped to your lats, traps and delts, then you're actually moving those muscles right now. If we used a system where we tried using your lats, traps and delts as points to control prothestic wings, then you run into the problem of what do you with your wings when you're not trying to use those muscles as a wing controller. In other words, you'll get a modal system... which are tricky. You'd basically have to switch off parts of 'baseline human' functionality at a time to get your 'human+' stuff.
But why not remote-control multiple sets of arms doing exactly what the primary pair are doing?