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You don't seem to understand:

"I'm specifically talking about how another person's view would affect me, not how I might change my behavior of them based on their view. Their view does not affect me. Their view might affect how I treat them, and my view might affect how they treat me, but their view does not affect me."

It's no different.

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For me to know your view, you must have expressed it in some manner. That implies an action on your part. For me to know your gender or race, you simply need to exist, and must actively work to hide either.

Expressing their view took action, and their actions can affect me.

What if you find out about their view from someone else? i.e. their "actions" do not happen in your presence, but in their private life.

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