The word "Odyssey" means journey. The way the author conflates it with sexism and privilege seems like she's just trolling for clicks.
It's a story about a man trying to get home, and a woman staying faithful in the face of uncertainty. Anything else is reading too much into it.
Just like if you're not yet confirmed dead in a war, your parents keep your room the way it was.
(EDIT: re: keeping the way it was, they'll come by and vacuum and dust once in a while.)