I think I learned more about elephants than relationships. It might have been because I couldn't get past the author's condescending tone and found myself wondering what the husband thought when he read his wife's article in the NYTimes. Did he notice how inferior she makes him seen? The non-witty the comparisons to animals just made it hilarious.

I'm young, I'm female, I don't have the answer to what makes relationships work, but thinking you are better than your partner isn't desirable in a relationship. My man lived a successful life before I came around. Hopefully we make each other better people, but nagging about shaving or talking down to them when they lose the car keys isn't how to improve your spouse.

edit: Am I just being immature and stupid and grouchy that I didn't get anything out of the article?