He says
"Also, you should take under consideration the workload of your system, if you are sure that you will have a very large portion of your fds active most of the time and that your worker pool is sufficiently large compared to the number of connections that you have that there is no reason not to use poll (think media/file servers), whereas if you are fairly sure that the majority of your fds are inactive and/or that the size of your workerpool is substantially smaller than the number of fds that you have open (think web servers) that there is no reason why you shouldn't use epoll.
That's the precise reason those two calls exist in the first place, and which one is 'best' (for whatever bit of extra throughput you can squeeze out of a machine because of this optimization) depends on your traffic."
To me it sounds as if overall he is saying roughly two things:
(1) "There are server conditions where epoll works better, and server conditions where poll works better,"
and
(2) "I dont believe that web servers specifically under real-life conditions are likely to be improved much by poll"
Clearly he and Zed agree on (1), that being the point of the related Zed post, and (2) might well be true, but I dont think it necessarily speaks directly to the use cases that Zed is hoping will eventuate for mongrel2.
Zed used a web server to test the differences between epoll and poll, and that has clearly focused the discussion somewhat, but from what I gleaned by reading his ongoing 'The Coming Of Mongrel2' series, he has a wider range of possible uses in mind for Mongrel2, and I am wondering whether that is where his and jacques conclusions are differing.
[1] I mean, clearly they are both entirely insane in a very real sense, but I do love to pretend that those around me are rational actors and enjoy projecting rational explanations for their behavior upon them.