The discovery of the edited source is a nice, solid addition to the discussion.
Ultimately though, AFAICT you and Zed are looking at - and generally agreeing with - the same facts, ie. that epoll and poll perform better depending on the situation.
If I am understanding you correctly, where you both are disagreeing is that you are determined that no webserver will actually reflect the usage pattern that would make it worthwhile for Zed to implement this 'superpoll' feature, while Zed is thinking that it will be worthwhile.
Which makes you seem like two reasonable people agreeing on the facts and both coming to a different conclusion, unfortunate but it does happen (and always fascinates me).
I wonder if part of the reason for the differing conclusions is differing expectations for Mongrel2? you seem very focused on 'expected real-life scenarios for existing websites', but I do have the feeling that Zed is anticipating/hoping/expecting that Mongrel2 will have a broader set of uses and be used in other ways in addition to the standard webserver.