"n-word" is used in the UK too.
Sometimes one needs to be specific about the nature and severity of the slur used.
Sometimes one needs to be specific about the nature and severity of the slur used.
Forgive me if I sound argumentative, I'm genuinely interested and trying to understand.
It's like "sexual harassment." That phrase alone will have some people thinking "oh, the poor guy just said she looked nice today and she flipped out." If you say "he stuck his hand up her dress and told her to be at his apartment at 9pm," there's no space for that sort of misunderstanding.