There are two things you have to trust, which I mention in the post.
1. That the node is not denying writes. (What's sometimes in blockchains called censorship.) If the node just didn't run your request, you'd be locked out with no evidence. It's not unsolveable, though - you could combat this by using a 3rd party proxy which records the traffic, and thus can back up your claim that you're being censored.
2. That the node won't just shut down. To combat this, you'd need a procedure for moving to a new hosting node. Not impossible either, but you'd need to decide for your userbase what kind of process would make them most comfortable. The blockchain state is there to be cloned at any time.