"Jony wants you to take time
and appreciate the simplicity
of the slowly dimming animations.
Or we’re just using it wrong."
Apple has lots of issues like this, in iOS and macOS, where they choose visual appeal over functionality, or where animation impedes usability.This is a pretty sad bug, though.
My (very expensive, "high-end") Japanese induction stove has a similar issue. Its capacitive touch controls take just an extra beat to register, so you have to turn on the stove, pause 700ms, turn on the burner, pause another 500ms or so, then turn the burner up to max to boil your kettle.
I'm totally used to it by now, and never get it wrong any more, but it still bugs me every single fucking morning.