Apple certainly didn't design the interface for placing calls on a competitor's device.
In any case, why are you so hostile to the idea that Apple was being intentionally malicious? If I were trying to discredit a competitor's product, I too would choose the most unattractive space I could to highlight it. Given that the signal strength is shown in most apps, you certainly have a wide choice.
You can tell the phone is engaged in a call by the dial button being a great big red "End Call" button, and by there being a little green call icon on the top left of the status bar.
Why this is a home-goal by Apple is that even though the bars dropped by the death grip, the phone did not drop the call.
The fundamental complaint about the iPhone 4 is that the death grip is causing dropped calls.
So Apple have gone and shown that whilst their competitors also are affected by the basic laws of science, they've managed to keep a base level of quality that avoids the consumer being affected by dropped calls.
Of course, we can over-analyze anything nowadays.