If your goal is a headphone amplifier/equalizer - I would recommend "The Art of Electronics" its much bigger but covers electronic design and gives you example circuits and parts which is what you're looking for.
It appears overwhelming but if you approach it with the same passion and process with which you tackled software, you'll be fine.
I've found that a good way to learn electronics systematically is not to think about components but to think about requirements and applications in industry. An example in the digital domain: most things have a button on them, so start by wiring a basic momentary switch to a microcontroller and code it to count the signal and output in binary on a bank of LEDs. Now look online to try and find how you might make a latching signal in hardware from a momentary switch signal. Simulate it on LT Spice. Build this new circuit to confirm the signals. Now, wire this into the enable pin of a basic linear regulator IC and get it to latch power on/off to your bank of LEDs. Next try a switch circuit allowing you to perform a short-press latches on, long-press latches OFF function. Etc. As long as you are patient and take time to simulate and understand each signal the understanding of the components themselves should drop into place, at least in my experience.
https://www.pjrc.com/teensy/td_libs_Audio.html
That will be good for getting familiar. At some point if you want to design circuits you need to learn the circuit theory and math. Too many resources to mention but if I had to pick one I'd look at something like MIT Open Courseware EE classes on circuits and "systems and signals" For books Art of Electronics is the classic.
Goes up the stack from boolean logic to OS.
I think the user is looking for something more like this:
https://learningtheartofelectronics.com/
That's a pretty big mouthful to swallow on your own, though. There are probably more gentle approaches available.
When you’re ready also check out Bela.io (disclaimer: I’m part of the team)
Also biased recommendation: audio effects book by Josh Reiss and Andrew McPherson