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Sad to hear about the change. I really loved reading the things you were doing at eleVR, and the clear and thoughtful way you explained them.
HN is indeed weird, but weird in both good and bad ways. FWIW, I'm pretty sure it's where I first found out about eleVR.
When you posted this comment, there were a lot of thoughtful and relevant comments. What gives you the right to "delegitimize" their words? You're not better than anyone else here.